If your apartment more than one room, the question arises: which of the available space to devote to a baby? What criteria will be decisive? Given the various arguments for a country house, for large and for small apartment. Teach them how to be the person in the presence of only two rooms.
In a large apartment or a country house
Next door to parents. While the child is an infant, it is convenient to arrange his crib in the parents ‘ bedroom. But too long in this neighborhood can be. Older children psychologically need personal space, which perforce will be violated when combining rooms. And constant “moving” from room to room, of course, is not the answer. So try to make the nursery a room close to your bedroom.
Best option. When it comes to a country house, the child would be best placed in one of the bedrooms on the second floor. It is desirable, that was my parents ‘ bedroom and bathroom Granny or nanny.
Windows on the East or Southeast. In this room, the child before noon will be actively playing in daylight, and after dinner fell asleep when the sun goes “decline”. Traditionally, a child is withdrawn the brightest room in the apartment. However, the “bust” sunlight is also undesirable, because the kid needs Continue reading
If the parents don’t listen and respect the child, he will look for a place where he will listen and he will get the respect (punks on the street). The child often hears the one who listens to and respects. Parenting is a struggle for “ears”. Whom the child listens – and he brings up.
Treat the child with respect, even when he’s wrong. The cries and bring censure imaginary effect and lead to alienation between parents and children. If the child is constantly forced to submit to your anger and power in his soul to accumulate resentment and negative feelings, he becomes timid and shy, or, conversely, uncontrollable and aggressive.
Principles of education:
A child surrounded by criticism — learn to blame;
A child surrounded by jeers — learns to be distrustful; Continue reading
I have a great article on the topic of child stealing, and I want to share with you. By the way, I used this information for the speakers at parent meetings in school – all simply and clearly presented by the author Anna Fenko.
When parents notice that their beloved child, who seems to be in need of nothing, slowly drags mom’s money from her purse, they usually panic. Meanwhile, according to experts, child stealing is a very common family problem.
Child theft is a frequent phenomenon, but carefully concealed as alcoholism and other “shameful” family secrets. In the minds of most adults firmly soldered two mythologies: the child is an innocent angel, and stealing – a sign of the criminal world, for normal people alien. When a child is caught stealing, the parents usually feel completely confused. One at that, go into hysterics, going either shoot themselves, or to pin their crimes on their hapless child, others prefer to pretend that nothing happened, because how to react is unclear.
Experts believe that the only correct response to the theft does not exist: it depends on the reasons why a child steals. There are three main causes of child stealing. The first is a children’s impulsivity. The child may steal simply because it’s very easy, Continue reading
The most important thing for parents is not to lose contact with your own child. It’s hard to do when your child exhibits all the traits of being closed. Stop in communication with all others.
The insularity and its symptoms
The child finds shelter in its isolation and draws in her power. He tries to move away from painful for him outside world. He seems to be alienated and restrained in his invasions, interventions in all that is around him. To a certain extent, many children have these feelings. But more disturbing are those who already clearly demonstrates symptoms of isolation:
— the child may not talk, speak in an extreme case, to pronounce the words in a whisper;
— kept away from all or with great difficulty included in the team;
— he has very few friends, or none at all;
— he is afraid to start something new;
— does not dare to Express their opinion;
— hides inside your feelings, thoughts, events, not a conversation with an adult;
— often shy away in conversation, hiding behind the phrase “I don’t know”, and sometimes and really thinks he has nothing to say;
— too careful in words and deeds;
State budgetary educational institution of the Republic of Khakassia for children – orphans and children left without parental care, “the Montenegrin special (correctional) boarding school”.
Family education in the conditions of a boarding school.
Family education of children in boarding school is one of the most important, most urgent and complex problems of the educational process. The family plays an important role in the mental development of the child, affects the attitude of children to education, largely determines its success and is essential in mastering people social norms. It is in the family formed the first ideas of the child on a particular social role: father, mother, friend, neighbor, etc. Representations of orphans enrolled in a boarding school mostly from disadvantaged families, are substantially distorted. They create their own, often incorrect, the image of a particular role.
In the boarding school children got here for different reasons:
Children who never saw their parents. In this case, the impact on children have only the people around them: caregivers, children, Continue reading