Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
Pregnancy – this is undoubtedly the most important step in the life of any woman. It is important to prepare it with a mind that is attentive to the development of the fetus and their own health. After all, the welfare of pregnancy and childbirth are interconnected with each other directly.
The average duration of pregnancy in women – from 35 to 42 weeks. With 24 weeks we can talk about the viability of the fetus, but these genera are too premature and run the risk to end in stillbirth. The optimal period for childbirth – 38-41 week. At this point the fetus becomes already very crowded, and he wants to escape. Births after 42 weeks is extremely dangerous, and in most cases end in stillbirth. Throughout the period of pregnancy should be 3 times to get an ultrasound. First time – 12-20 week. At this period of review of fetal syndromes down’s and Edwards. Next ultrasound on the period of 20-24 weeks, you need to check the normal development of the fetus. It is already possible to accurately determine the sex of the baby ( it is possible in principle 15 weeks). Third ultrasound to determine the full development of the fetus and its General condition is conducted at 30 to 34 weeks. For all the time of pregnancy Continue reading
This information can be applied everywhere and always, because in the upbringing of the child no weekends and holidays. And what would your son used to be a joyful and happy person not so much, the main thing is your desire and understanding and of course Love. And how to implement it in my life read in this article.
Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash socks and ironed shirts. Maybe he’ll never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful to you.
Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then discuss what you read, think out, Continue reading