Too little to educate?
Your newborn baby is crying – you pick him up. He is hungry – you feed him. He has a wet diaper – you change. You will certainly meet his every need. To care for the baby and so very difficult, and of course, nurture your baby too early, right? But soon the child becomes wiser, and his needs are transformed into desires, and you understand that it would not hurt to set some boundaries.
How many times per day you patiently pick up from the floor and thrown a pacifier, a toy or an overturned bowl of porridge?
We know what you’re thinking: 1 or 2 years ’ s too early to punish the child. That kind of attitude is a stumbling block. Because education – this is not the only punishment. This training and instruction, which can and should start from an early age.
Limitations – an important part of your parental duty. You help the child understand what is good and what is bad, follow the rules and deal with disappointments. Of course, we all know that a child who is “bad behavior”, do not do this on purpose. When the child breaks your points, he’s only doing what Continue reading
One of the most common bad habits is Masturbation. Masturbation can occur at any, even very early, age. In boys it occurs slightly more often than girls, but the latter is usually harder to get rid of. It usually manifests itself in the fact that the boys touch the penis or RUB it on the bed, lying on her tummy. Girls brings the finger or the corner of the sheets in the sex gap or legs rubbed against each other. The child breathes, blushing. Often after that the sex organs show signs of irritation, redness (girls sometimes discharge).
You need to carefully monitor the child, not to miss the first attempts to Masturbation, not to root this bad habit.
By the way, how it is harmful? Very common are two opposite and incorrect in its extreme judgments point of view.
Some believe that if a child Masturbates, he died, it grows up to be an idiot or a psychopath. There are even parents who, turning to me for help, desperate to claim that if I, just like the previous doctors won’t be able to save their child from this Vice, they will kill him, because “it is better that it wasn’t, than he will grow defective”. The reason for such extreme points of view on the dangers of Masturbation is that among adult masturbators Continue reading
Why toddlers are greedy and that we as parents can do to ensure that the child grew up in an open and kind person.
What we call greed, from time to time manifests itself in almost every small child: not shared yummy candy with my brother, not given to other children in the yard to play with his new machine. But in children this quality is not constant, it is not peculiar to the nature of the child and is not born with him. Most often greed manifests itself in a certain situation occurs and for any reason. And sometimes we adults just confuse greed with other manifestations of the child’s life.
Kids love all the beautiful, bright, unusual and involuntarily drawn to him. The little tot the owner of the gorgeous new toys – I do not want to part with it for a minute, and this is understandable. He holds her to his and jealously guards from other children. Well, if the hidden object does not belong to him, what he was trying to seduce him. When you can’t bitterly crying, screaming or throwing a tantrum But all this is far from true greed, it’s just the baby it is hard at this age to voluntarily give someone something that is so like him. After three years, when a child learns to build relationships with their peers, sometimes he starts to make Continue reading