Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
To be able to read and count is not the most important thing for the child. What should parents know?
Like every parent, you’re worried about whether the kid is ready to learn. Perhaps, because of continued employment on the work you relied on the skills development of the child in kindergarten. Those adults whose child did not attend pre-school educational establishments concerned and another important question: is it easy to be the kid in the peer group? Such concerns are relevant when children have a hard time adapting to unfamiliar people.
Unfortunately, some parents, asking themselves, whether the child is ready for school, mean quite different – whether he provided the necessary clothing and footwear, books and stationery, does he have a place to practice. It is clear that all this, too, should take care in advance. But, according to psychologists, almost all adults forget about the main thing: when a child completes the pre-school period, he finds himself in a much less forgiving big world.
September 1 of each “miracle baby” as if ejected from the parental home in a bustling school life. Your child was not in school and on the street as a helpless baby, and you don’t have to constantly interfere in his relationships with teachers, other boys and girls, you need to imagine that you and your Continue reading
A tale about fear. When working with children streamingly I was afraid of dogs. and cats, cockroaches, moths, grasshoppers, snakes and darkness.
It is very unpleasant to be afraid of something. And I was so scared, not even at night I closed my eyes and tried not to blink, that was not dark. Yeah you know how terrible it is to be afraid. Not only that, with fear you run goosebumps and feel like in your throat dries up, so still need to pretend to anybody about your fear of not guessed, because it would be laughed at! And laughed. And how they laughed at me! And friends, older brothers and sisters, and parents, and most worryingly, it seemed that even these boogers and dog in the doorway giggling and winks, looking at me.
But now it’s all in the past. I calmly remain in an empty dark room, friends with cats and dogs, in General, feel confident in the outside world. How did I do it? Now to tell you a secret.
One day I met a clown. Yes, for real. I was with my parents in the circus. In the arena of clowning clown. I don’t like the circus – during the presentation, it’s dark and a lot of creatures. But this clown has interested me. He invited all who want to write their wishes on a piece of paper, at the bottom put your name and folded the note Continue reading