Preschool age is an important phase in the life and upbringing of children, which laid the basis for further comprehensive development of a child. This time of intense growth, brain development and all major body functions. At this stage in the upbringing of the child lays the main features of the character to determine the type of temperament of the child. There are four: sanguine, choleric, phlegmatic and melancholic. Child development is largely determined by what type gravitates his temperament. In pure form these types of the nervous system are very rare, but, as a rule, any child can be attributed to some kind of intermediate type with the approach to one of the main.
Particularly pronounced manifestations of the type of temperament are at the very youngest age, and largely determine the child’s upbringing. The type of the nervous system must be taken into account in the process of raising children. Moreover, in this age of targeted education and creating certain conditions may, within certain limits, to influence the manifestation of the characteristics of temperament, smooth some unwanted its manifestations and to send emotional development of the child in a favorable direction.
Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
Ukraine continues to maintain the course to as many orphans and children who cannot (or will not) raise a native dads and moms, grew up in families. Not all kids are adopted, and sometimes it is impossible, as though the child and surrendered to the state, but birth parents haven’t abandoned it — went missing, in prison. Often adoptive parents ignore the “children” and those who are already in its infancy. For these and many other children there are orphanages of family type and foster families. They differ from each other by the number of children and the fact that the foster family does not need to create the “necessary conditions for living and education”: all this should already be present. This year in Crimea were a lot of candidates in adoptive parents.
Education as work…
Many people confuse adoption with foster families: apparently, our mentality does not allow to perceive parenting as a job. But the relationship of adoptive mothers and fathers with government such: they are paid a salary, according to the Cabinet, because they take a child into their family, which is otherwise forced to live in a state orphanage.
As told to “1K” the chief of Department on Affairs of minors of the Ministry of youth, family and gender policy of the Crimea Yuri Tulayev, only this year Continue reading