Seven steps how to teach your child to listen and obey
In a world where there is so little love, family – a quiet Marina, saving oasis, where people can wait out the storms and care. Who else to love, not as the most people close to us – children, relatives?
Parents in most cases, love children more than the children’s parents. And expectation of the huge children’s love – the real selfishness.
Those who love children, know that they can give us much more joy and happiness than we them. We should be grateful that we have them.
The main task of parents is to give the child the best clothes, food and toys, and to form him.
WE NEED TO EDUCATE CHILDREN BY THE EXAMPLE OF HIS LIFE.
Your example, your parents, your behavior is beyond words and counsel acting for young hearts… do Not tell your child the truth, and he would be ashamed of lies. If blame him for the sharpness of reproach and cruelty of words, and a minute before that was making rude reprimand, then you beat the air. If you want your children to like good, show cases, what is good is worthy of love.
Instructions of the other act on the mind, and his mother’s admonitions to heart.
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Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
Raising a child is best in an intact family where there is mutual respect and love. But life is making adjustments in the relationship between parents – and one beloved mom and dad can tell the child about the divorce. Like him, such a small and ranimaa, forced to endure separation from one parent?
Children often feel that the house is a disorder, but a rift between mom and dad – is one, and the care of a parent from the family – it is quite another. The real tragedy, which is printed on all future biographies of the baby. He himself can not cope, you need to help your child survive divorce with minimal psychological damage
What happens to the child during the divorce?
The preschoolers. Them cope with the divorce of mom and dad are the hardest, because children and family are very connected: in the first years of life parents focused all the attention of the crumbs. In the case of disorder toddlers can blame yourself for what happened, often capricious, suffer from insecurity, because no influence on the outcome of events. Children by any means, often unconsciously, trying to keep mom and dad together – with the help of own illness or bad behavior.
Children of school age. Guys Continue reading