Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
Conflicts between parents and children in the family begins at the end of the first year of a child’s life. and the end… however, they can and will not end throughout life. Causes of conflict children and adults may be several, in this case, the older the child, the more difficult to avoid family conflict. Agree that to find a common language with a difficult teenager is harder than with a baby in the third year of life .
Who is to blame in family conflicts, parents or children?
Who is to blame and what to do? Eternal questions that I hear most often. Let’s start with the first question. Who is to blame for the continued conflict between parents and children, the older or younger generation? Of course, many parents believe their children are Moody and stubborn and how many of them do not teach as they don’t explain, all trying to do it your way.
Not so simple, actually. Let’s think. If in the family there was a quarrel between the spouses, then who is to blame? Blame both. Although, of course, each spouse blames the other half. They are both right and wrong at the same time. Right, because they feel guilty the second the half. And wrong, because they believe themselves innocent in this conflict. Everything is clear in theory Continue reading
Everyone knows that in the last century babies slept in cradles, sabkah, cradles. For example, my husband’s mom lived in his childhood in the village. She says that all children in the family was rocked in the dear, exactly like ours. It was in the middle of the 20th century, literally 50 years ago. And children in the family they had 7. And dad husband says that all the houses in their village hung a cradle-unstable.
What is the cradle-shaky so good that for centuries her people had used?
You know, and doctors say the child is born with a DEVELOPING DIGESTIVE SYSTEM. Sorry, but “colic” is familiar to almost all parents. Well, when mom has lots of milk and the baby learns it well. In infants lack the enzymes bowel movement unevenly, weak tummy muscles and buttocks. Here the conditions for increased gas. The child has pain, he’s not sleeping, crying, and it only worsens the situation. Well? but if the food is mixed or toddler “iskusstvennikh”?
There is a way to facilitate the exit of gases: you can put a small cotton wick between the buttocks of the baby (especially when it “works” in the first three months of life).
What in the cradle such that can help?
Most importantly, the BABY’s POSITION. In a large crib, on a flat surface without a pillow the baby lies with legs as straight as possible. Continue reading