Too little to educate?
Your newborn baby is crying – you pick him up. He is hungry – you feed him. He has a wet diaper – you change. You will certainly meet his every need. To care for the baby and so very difficult, and of course, nurture your baby too early, right? But soon the child becomes wiser, and his needs are transformed into desires, and you understand that it would not hurt to set some boundaries.
How many times per day you patiently pick up from the floor and thrown a pacifier, a toy or an overturned bowl of porridge?
We know what you’re thinking: 1 or 2 years ’ s too early to punish the child. That kind of attitude is a stumbling block. Because education – this is not the only punishment. This training and instruction, which can and should start from an early age.
Limitations – an important part of your parental duty. You help the child understand what is good and what is bad, follow the rules and deal with disappointments. Of course, we all know that a child who is “bad behavior”, do not do this on purpose. When the child breaks your points, he’s only doing what Continue reading
Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
To be able to read and count is not the most important thing for the child. What should parents know?
Like every parent, you’re worried about whether the kid is ready to learn. Perhaps, because of continued employment on the work you relied on the skills development of the child in kindergarten. Those adults whose child did not attend pre-school educational establishments concerned and another important question: is it easy to be the kid in the peer group? Such concerns are relevant when children have a hard time adapting to unfamiliar people.
Unfortunately, some parents, asking themselves, whether the child is ready for school, mean quite different – whether he provided the necessary clothing and footwear, books and stationery, does he have a place to practice. It is clear that all this, too, should take care in advance. But, according to psychologists, almost all adults forget about the main thing: when a child completes the pre-school period, he finds himself in a much less forgiving big world.
September 1 of each “miracle baby” as if ejected from the parental home in a bustling school life. Your child was not in school and on the street as a helpless baby, and you don’t have to constantly interfere in his relationships with teachers, other boys and girls, you need to imagine that you and your Continue reading