Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
Raising a child is best in an intact family where there is mutual respect and love. But life is making adjustments in the relationship between parents – and one beloved mom and dad can tell the child about the divorce. Like him, such a small and ranimaa, forced to endure separation from one parent?
Children often feel that the house is a disorder, but a rift between mom and dad – is one, and the care of a parent from the family – it is quite another. The real tragedy, which is printed on all future biographies of the baby. He himself can not cope, you need to help your child survive divorce with minimal psychological damage
What happens to the child during the divorce?
The preschoolers. Them cope with the divorce of mom and dad are the hardest, because children and family are very connected: in the first years of life parents focused all the attention of the crumbs. In the case of disorder toddlers can blame yourself for what happened, often capricious, suffer from insecurity, because no influence on the outcome of events. Children by any means, often unconsciously, trying to keep mom and dad together – with the help of own illness or bad behavior.
Children of school age. Guys Continue reading
Conflicts between parents and children in the family begins at the end of the first year of a child’s life. and the end… however, they can and will not end throughout life. Causes of conflict children and adults may be several, in this case, the older the child, the more difficult to avoid family conflict. Agree that to find a common language with a difficult teenager is harder than with a baby in the third year of life .
Who is to blame in family conflicts, parents or children?
Who is to blame and what to do? Eternal questions that I hear most often. Let’s start with the first question. Who is to blame for the continued conflict between parents and children, the older or younger generation? Of course, many parents believe their children are Moody and stubborn and how many of them do not teach as they don’t explain, all trying to do it your way.
Not so simple, actually. Let’s think. If in the family there was a quarrel between the spouses, then who is to blame? Blame both. Although, of course, each spouse blames the other half. They are both right and wrong at the same time. Right, because they feel guilty the second the half. And wrong, because they believe themselves innocent in this conflict. Everything is clear in theory Continue reading