divorce

How to help your child survive divorce

Raising a child is best in an intact family where there is mutual respect and love. But life is making adjustments in the relationship between parents – and one beloved mom and dad can tell the child about the divorce. Like him, such a small and ranimaa, forced to endure separation from one parent?

Children often feel that the house is a disorder, but a rift between mom and dad – is one, and the care of a parent from the family – it is quite another. The real tragedy, which is printed on all future biographies of the baby. He himself can not cope, you need to help your child survive divorce with minimal psychological damage

What happens to the child during the divorce?

The preschoolers. Them cope with the divorce of mom and dad are the hardest, because children and family are very connected: in the first years of life parents focused all the attention of the crumbs. In the case of disorder toddlers can blame yourself for what happened, often capricious, suffer from insecurity, because no influence on the outcome of events. Children by any means, often unconsciously, trying to keep mom and dad together – with the help of own illness or bad behavior.

Children of school age. Guys Continue reading

Why do children steal

I have a great article on the topic of child stealing, and I want to share with you. By the way, I used this information for the speakers at parent meetings in school – all simply and clearly presented by the author Anna Fenko.

When parents notice that their beloved child, who seems to be in need of nothing, slowly drags mom’s money from her purse, they usually panic. Meanwhile, according to experts, child stealing is a very common family problem.

Child theft is a frequent phenomenon, but carefully concealed as alcoholism and other “shameful” family secrets. In the minds of most adults firmly soldered two mythologies: the child is an innocent angel, and stealing – a sign of the criminal world, for normal people alien. When a child is caught stealing, the parents usually feel completely confused. One at that, go into hysterics, going either shoot themselves, or to pin their crimes on their hapless child, others prefer to pretend that nothing happened, because how to react is unclear.

Experts believe that the only correct response to the theft does not exist: it depends on the reasons why a child steals. There are three main causes of child stealing. The first is a children’s impulsivity. The child may steal simply because it’s very easy, Continue reading

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