How to communicate with the child?

Striving to be perfect parents, we are ready for more. As shown by the theory and practice of psychology, the most important thing in dealing with a child — is to try to understand him. But that’s exactly what we get is the worst. Why the baby does? Why our words or actions, he responds in some strange, unknown to us?

Why his behavior is so annoying to us. How to communicate with the child? We are looking for a versatile means of communication that could be applied in any situation. Such principles, of course, exist, but to use them, we need to know better than the child, and himself.

The principles of interaction

1. Fewer inhibitions!

Sometimes it seems that the main words of parents, by which they communicate with the child, are “need” and “impossible”. To understand what a child feels when he is ordered, it is enough to remember, as we react to the word “need”.

– Do it to us?

– we would Like to hear it?

– What emotions it evokes in us the word?

If you don’t like, why should please your child? Unless he’s a soldier, to follow orders, which, as is well known, are not discussed? He is quite able to understand your explanations, of course, given the age and more than once, especially if you try to explain to him, focusing on his own desires.

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