The upbringing of a child is a complicated process. While parents often feel that the result is not the one they expect. It is especially difficult becomes the child’s parents during the so-called “crisis of the age”, one of which is age three years. Let us consider the features of the psychological development of the three-year kid, how to organize the education of the child in 3 years.
The third year of life – a difficult age
Very often the third year of a child’s life brings unexpected difficulties parents. It seems that it should be the other way around is easier with a toddler – he has grown up, started to speak, learns to play. But the child suddenly refuses to wear her favorite before, the clothes, instead of the usual porridge soup requires, on a walk without a cause naughty. Some parents start to panic. They don’t understand what is going on with the baby and how to raise a child in 3 years.
But to be frightened, panic is just not worth it. This child’s behaviour is quite natural at this age. Among experts, there is even a special term – “the crisis of the age of three”. The crisis is temporary, sooner or later it will pass. Many children this behavior takes place quickly and without Continue reading
Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
How to raise a girl . – since I have a daughter, this issue really worries me! Because of the proper education of girls depend on her relationship with men, her happiness, her fate. And since she is a future mother and wife, from her upbringing influences the atmosphere of her future family, the destiny of her children.
You ask: “Is it that serious? After all, we as educated? Grew up we were independent and we learn ourselves. And our daughters life will teach!”
And let’s remember, how, and most importantly who we were raised? Why now, many women think and feel themselves above men, wiser, smarter? Why in many families, the man plays a secondary role? How often we hear the phrase, “Men only want to bed…”
Look, as the woman took in the family place head of the family! Why do we no longer trust the upbringing of children by their own father? How many women live alone, and dreaming about the “perfect man”. Moreover, they are confident that all normal men have already discussed, were only drunks!
Answer the question: “Who has been raising the girls?” Right, mother and grandmother, i.e. women. Of course, all right, if not one “but”…
Our women go into force of circumstances (Civil, Finnish. Patriotic wars), has long Continue reading