Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
I have a great article on the topic of child stealing, and I want to share with you. By the way, I used this information for the speakers at parent meetings in school – all simply and clearly presented by the author Anna Fenko.
When parents notice that their beloved child, who seems to be in need of nothing, slowly drags mom’s money from her purse, they usually panic. Meanwhile, according to experts, child stealing is a very common family problem.
Child theft is a frequent phenomenon, but carefully concealed as alcoholism and other “shameful” family secrets. In the minds of most adults firmly soldered two mythologies: the child is an innocent angel, and stealing – a sign of the criminal world, for normal people alien. When a child is caught stealing, the parents usually feel completely confused. One at that, go into hysterics, going either shoot themselves, or to pin their crimes on their hapless child, others prefer to pretend that nothing happened, because how to react is unclear.
Experts believe that the only correct response to the theft does not exist: it depends on the reasons why a child steals. There are three main causes of child stealing. The first is a children’s impulsivity. The child may steal simply because it’s very easy, Continue reading