Some people believe that the daughter is closer to her mother, and the son – to the father, and if for a boy of no family history of Pope – this is a serious problem, we need girls in the father seems not as sharp. Yes, indeed psychologists know that girls very early start to identify with the mother. Throughout their childhood, they, without knowing it, equal to the mother, imitating her voice, intonation, manners and tastes. But from that little girl feels with her mother as a single organism, the father appears to her a completely different personality and therefore are especially remarkable.
Dad is no more interesting and different, not like mom. In their games with my dad baby gets the experience of communicating with a person of the other sex, in her mind fixed idea about the difference between a man and a woman. Finding this difference as something positive and joyful, the girl alleged in her femininity, based on opposites, unlike imitation mother.
The presence of the father in her daughter’s life is very important since the appearance of the girls at the light. This obviously affects their relationship in the future. In any case, the mother ceases to be the centre around which is organized the whole family life. Until recently, psychologists believed that the father begins to have meaning for girls older than three years when they awakened Continue reading
We all look forward to a hot summer. But for parents, summer — it is a strong headache in search of an answer to the question “what to do with the child during the summer”.To spend all the summer months at the computer or TV is a very bad idea.
Let’s consider the options of how to spend the summer with the greatest benefit:
Holidays at sea. Many families go in the summer on the black sea coast or even abroad to take a break from the hustle and recuperate. Of course, this is a new experience, but this trip does not solve the problem of employment of your child during free time. It is unlikely that he will be happy to lie on the beach all day or idle pastime at the hotel. You should think about getting into the program of your holiday present an exciting and informative tours, entertainment activities, etc. the best option will be the choice of accommodation in which among other things offers regular cultural, educational and entertainment programs for children.
Stay in the country. A suburban area is not only seclusion from everyday life in his native place alone with nature. This is an opportunity to bring a child to feasibly work, care of adult.
To turn your child into a committed gardener you are unlikely Continue reading
Ukraine continues to maintain the course to as many orphans and children who cannot (or will not) raise a native dads and moms, grew up in families. Not all kids are adopted, and sometimes it is impossible, as though the child and surrendered to the state, but birth parents haven’t abandoned it — went missing, in prison. Often adoptive parents ignore the “children” and those who are already in its infancy. For these and many other children there are orphanages of family type and foster families. They differ from each other by the number of children and the fact that the foster family does not need to create the “necessary conditions for living and education”: all this should already be present. This year in Crimea were a lot of candidates in adoptive parents.
Education as work…
Many people confuse adoption with foster families: apparently, our mentality does not allow to perceive parenting as a job. But the relationship of adoptive mothers and fathers with government such: they are paid a salary, according to the Cabinet, because they take a child into their family, which is otherwise forced to live in a state orphanage.
As told to “1K” the chief of Department on Affairs of minors of the Ministry of youth, family and gender policy of the Crimea Yuri Tulayev, only this year Continue reading