This information can be applied everywhere and always, because in the upbringing of the child no weekends and holidays. And what would your son used to be a joyful and happy person not so much, the main thing is your desire and understanding and of course Love. And how to implement it in my life read in this article.
Teach your son to put into words what he feels. The kid can scream in frustration, to hide from embarrassment, biting excitement and crying from fear. Explain to him that it is emotions that tell the body how to behave. Show him other people who feel the same, but Express their emotions differently. Talk with your child about your own emotions. When he one day will grow, you will know the difference between rage and embarrassment, disappointment and grief, and learn to cope with their emotions and Express them intelligently, without shame and without guilt.
Teach your son to clean up after themselves, cook, wash socks and ironed shirts. Maybe he’ll never come in handy, but one day his wife will be grateful to you.
Read to him and with him. Children become readers on the lap of their parents. The child needs to see that you also read. Tell him about what you read. About their favorite books and characters. Explain to him why it is so important to read books. And read together and then discuss what you read, think out, Continue reading
Conflicts between parents and children in the family begins at the end of the first year of a child’s life. and the end… however, they can and will not end throughout life. Causes of conflict children and adults may be several, in this case, the older the child, the more difficult to avoid family conflict. Agree that to find a common language with a difficult teenager is harder than with a baby in the third year of life .
Who is to blame in family conflicts, parents or children?
Who is to blame and what to do? Eternal questions that I hear most often. Let’s start with the first question. Who is to blame for the continued conflict between parents and children, the older or younger generation? Of course, many parents believe their children are Moody and stubborn and how many of them do not teach as they don’t explain, all trying to do it your way.
Not so simple, actually. Let’s think. If in the family there was a quarrel between the spouses, then who is to blame? Blame both. Although, of course, each spouse blames the other half. They are both right and wrong at the same time. Right, because they feel guilty the second the half. And wrong, because they believe themselves innocent in this conflict. Everything is clear in theory Continue reading
Ukraine continues to maintain the course to as many orphans and children who cannot (or will not) raise a native dads and moms, grew up in families. Not all kids are adopted, and sometimes it is impossible, as though the child and surrendered to the state, but birth parents haven’t abandoned it — went missing, in prison. Often adoptive parents ignore the “children” and those who are already in its infancy. For these and many other children there are orphanages of family type and foster families. They differ from each other by the number of children and the fact that the foster family does not need to create the “necessary conditions for living and education”: all this should already be present. This year in Crimea were a lot of candidates in adoptive parents.
Education as work…
Many people confuse adoption with foster families: apparently, our mentality does not allow to perceive parenting as a job. But the relationship of adoptive mothers and fathers with government such: they are paid a salary, according to the Cabinet, because they take a child into their family, which is otherwise forced to live in a state orphanage.
As told to “1K” the chief of Department on Affairs of minors of the Ministry of youth, family and gender policy of the Crimea Yuri Tulayev, only this year Continue reading